| These two very varied answers are exaggerations and
cannot be literal. Yet they do bring out the state of mind of both the
sexes. It shows the extremes at which their interpretations of sex are.
The woman thinks of sex as being serious business, showing her lack of
pleasure and enjoyment. The man however thinks of it as hot and ecstatic
thus depicting his lack of responsibility and respect toward the intimacy
of the experience.
However,
these preconceived notions of sex are what our brain believes them to
be. We get our ideas from various mediums like, TV, movies, music, jokes,
from friends and family, and then we combine and assimilate all of what
we believe to be true and thus form our own myths. One needs to however,
sort out the truth and the hearsay.
Sex therapy, is a medium and a study which is used to
help people accept and increase enjoyment of their sexuality. It is based
on the ideas that sex is normal and good, that relationships can be meaningful,
and sexual intimacy is a normal goal. It also gives you the powerful tool
of knowledge, equipped with which one can lead a full and satisfied life.
Sexology is a forum for the discussion and analysism
of ethical, cultural, psychological, social, and political
issues related to sexual relationships and sexual behavior. An individual's
sexual orientation--whether homosexual or heterosexual--is an essential
part of sexual health and personality which strongly supports the
right of each individual to accept, acknowledge, and live in accordance
with his or her orientation.
Sexual orientation is one's erotic, romantic, and affectional
attraction to the same gender , to the opposite gender, or both.
A person whether man or woman has the right to
choose always. Sometimes your partner might push you to become sexually
active. Knowing your values and deciding what it is that you want will
help you in this situation. It should also be understood that if someone
carries a condom, it does not mean that they are "easy" or expect
"action". It simply means that the person is being prepared
for protection if he/she decide to indulge in sexual intercourse. In fact
it is mostly advised by all that one should always carry protection at
all times and must never engage in sex unless with a condom.
Sex is an expression of feelings, thoughts and emotions.
The mature understanding of this is what makes an adult. One doesn't need
to shudder or embarrass ones' self when the topic is brought up. Our sexuality
is a part of us and should never be suppressed or ignored. The choices
an individual makes is a reflection of himself - let your foremost be
"awareness". |