| Each of the 12 communities
("ashrams") we visited focused on economic independence - creating
services or jobs, no matter the disability or caste. Each Gandhian group
welcomed us warmly with much dahl and rice, their typical food. Each reflected
the independent living philosophy of advocacy, peer support, and skills
training. Gandhian tradition requires these plus interdependency. "If
it is man's privilege to be independent, it is equally his duty to be
inter-dependent," Gandhi said. "Strength does not come from
physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will."
Managed mostly by men with disabilities, these communities
let people with disabilities live a full life, included in celebrations
and religious practices and with plenty to eat. Baba Amte's Ashram contained
mostly people called "inmates" with disabilities - people with
leprosy, deaf people, blind people and others seeking refuge.
Society forces people with disabilities into these self-contained
but often self-run communities (thus the word "inmate); unlike these
"lucky inmates," most Indian people with disabilities are viewed
as "a fate worse than death" and outside these havens, people
with disabilities, like the "untouchable: caste, are openly discriminated
against, humiliated, and often abused.
The survival of the fittest rules India: people with
significant disabilities are left to die, and thus not seen. Wheelchairs
cannot take the terrain, but three wheeled bicycles can (yet I never saw
women using either).
In India, it is better to have leprosy than HIV or other
expensive "diseases," for in those cases you are simply left
to die because it costs too much to treat you.
Gangs steal or retrieve babies with disabilities and
place them with an indentured woman who walks the street begging for money
for "her handicapped child." As soon as these children can move
on their own, the gang forces them into the street to beg for more money.
Children who are blind or deaf join schools that send them to "entertain"
the public to pay for tuition degrading display of their "new skills"
to the public. (Yet Gandhi's family also had a disabled person. Blind
and physically disabled from birth, he listened to the radio and relayed
important information every night to the people.)
At journey's end, I reflected on the violence against
disabled people not only in India but in our own country: Here it was
passive violence: physician-assisted suicide, people parking illegally
in the disability spot; people saying, "it's only one step - we can
carry them up" and "we can't afford to do this for you disabled
people" revealed the devaluing and oppression of our people. |