Physicians stress that enuresis is not a disease, but a symptom, and a fairly common one. Occasional accidents may occur, particularly when the child is ill. Here are some facts parents should know about bedwetting:
- Approximately 15 per cent of children wet their beds after the age of three.
- Many more boys than girls wet their beds.
- Bedwetting runs in families.
- Usually bedwetting stops by puberty.
- Most bedwetters do not have emotional problems.
In most cases, it is due to the development of the child’s bladder control being slower than normal. Bedwetting may also be the result of the child’s tensions and emotions that require attention.
There are a variety of emotional reasons for bedwetting. For example, when a young child begins bedwetting after several months or years of dryness during the night, this may reflect new fears or insecurities. This may follow changes or events which make the child feel insecure: moving to a new environment, losing a family member or loved one, or especially the arrival of a new baby or child in the home. Sometimes, bedwetting occurs after a period of dryness because the child’s original toilet training was too stressful.
Parents should remember that children rarely wet on purpose, and usually feel ashamed about the incident. Rather than make the child feel naughty or ashamed, parents need to encourage the child and show faith that he or she will soon be able to enjoy staying dry at night. A pediatrician’s advice is often very helpful.
Parents may help children who wet the bed by:
- Limiting liquids before bed–time.
- Encouraging the child to go to the bathroom before bed–time.
- Praising the child on dry mornings.
- Avoiding punishments.
- Waking the child during the night to empty their bladder.
In these cases, parents may want to talk with a child and adolescent psychiatrist, who will evaluate the physical and emotional problems that may be causing the bedwetting, and will work with the child and parents to resolve these problems. Treatment for bedwetting in children includes behavioral conditioning devices (pad/buzzer) and/or medications. Examples of medications used include anti–diuretic hormone nasal spray and the anti–depressant medication imipramine.